And they
thought women were complex creatures…
After
decades of reading an array of novels: thrillers, mystery, suspense, paranormal
and yeah, romance (duh), I realized one thing…I hadn’t come across
many works of romance where a woman had written in a male’s perspective,
in the first person.
Since I’m
some kind of masochist—okay, so I love to impose a challenge or two (or a
hundred) where my writing is concerned—I took a leap of faith, thus began my
adventure!
Once
Written, Twice Shy (OWTS), the
first in my Broken Men Chronicles series, was inspired by a play on
online dating and my love for reading and writing. What I didn’t know at
the time, was that not only would one book be born, but an entire series would
follow!
All
interconnected, yet vastly different, the men of The Broken Men Chronicles series each have a unique
story to tell. From a divorcé, to a widower, a retired militant, even the
age-old lost love scenario, and childhood nemeses, these men are scarred in
some way ("broken" if you will) yet they persevere. Some
battles, both physical and emotional, are tougher than others but they all seek
one thing…to come out on top.
I’m no
shrink. I’m no guy. I don’t have some degree in male psyche analysis of any kind. And no, I
haven’t suffered an electrical shock much like Mel Gibson in What
Women Want where I miraculously know what’s going on up
there. Now, you’re wondering how in the world does a woman pull it off?
You see,
there came a point in my life (as I entered my thirties), where I came to
realize that what the average man and woman want out of life isn’t all that
different: a career, a family or at least someone to call theirs, a home, friends,
happiness…need I say more? So, I seized the gauntlet and began to write.
I’m the
kind of writer that writes with inhibited emotion. If I can’t feel it, it’s no
good. In keeping close with everyday life, I like to mix things up. From
the hot and sexy, to the rage,
the grief, the turmoil that uncertainty in one’s life can cause, not to mention
the humor, my readers are thrust into a world where they can relate. Personally,
I love nothing more than a work of fiction where I can picture myself as being
part of the character's experience. It's that proverbial fly-on-the-wall
syndrome.
Reading is
an escape. It’s a way to detach yourself from your
world and immerse yourself into another’s. Should you laugh, feel
angered, annoyed, overjoyed, not to mention, thrilled at any point in a read,
then the author’s done their job efficiently.
Some may
say that I have feminized my male leads. I disagree.
Inspired by people in my life, I wrote characters that have a certain degree of
respect toward the opposite sex (yes, even players can have some). In true guy fashion, my men’s dialect can
be crass and inappropriate at times as it can be loving, sweet and endearing at
others. Same goes for their behavior. I wasn’t looking to write up a slew
of Stepford characters. Realistic
means with fault and
I strive to capture that no matter who the character may be. Of course,
writing first person also means that your characters need substance and delving
into each of these men’s lives, you’ll quickly come to find out, there is no
lack of it. With that said, male readers are able to relate to these characters
as much as their female counterparts.
In closing,
I have to say that my experience in writing from a male’s perspective has been
a
humbling one. I’ve loved the self-imposed challenge, not to mention the
humorous discussions I’ve had with my male friends and husband while
entertaining the task. For those of you reading this post, I hope that
you’ve enjoyed the insight to my inner writer workings.
- Carey Decevito
An Author Interview With Carey Decevito
What is the craziest
thing you've done to research a book?
Do attending self-defence classes to get a
fight scene right, or contacting a cop friend and sitting in a blood spatter
analysis and bomb/SWAT team workshop with the Ottawa Romance Writers’
Association count?
Aside from that, I’ve only written about
things I know, researching things online (mythical creatures, Greek mythology,
witchcraft, firearms, American law, hacking, etc) or referring to my old
college textbooks for anything medical to make sure that what I’m writing makes
sense and is right.
What is your writing
process? (Eg: plotter vs pantser, solitary vs public)
When it comes to my writing processes, they
vary depending on the genre of book I’m writing. If it’s strict contemporary
romance, I’m usually a pantser and simply let the story flow from the tips of
my fingers onto the keyboard and go from there. I usually have some sort of
plot in mind but nothing is ever mapped out on paper or on my computer. I
typically know how the beginning goes, what the major hurdle will be in the
middle, and how I want things to end. It’s funny to say, but I actually see my
novels develop as though I had an internal movie playing in my mind.
As for my romantic suspense or paranormal
genres, I need to plan a bit more. I usually have a document that lays things
out. It helps me with the research I need to do whether it be on witchcraft, or
firearms…hell, even the time allotted before refueling a helicopter for
instance.
Undoubtedly, no matter the genre I’m writing
at any given time, I remain a bit of both a pantser and plotter.
And when writing, I typically prefer doing the
bulk of it in a quiet corner. If the ideas are clear in my mind, then I can
usually write no matter where I’m at, but normally it’s my writing cave or
bedroom. The chances where you’ll see me in a local Starbucks are slim unless
I’m editing or plotting. Being surrounded by people, especially during plotting
the development of a specific book works like a charm to inspire.
What is your favourite
thing to do to relax?
As a mother, wife, author, employee, life
tends to dominate. My greatest way to escape it all is to either be writing or
reading. Whenever I get some “me time”, I like to dive into a work of fiction
and only come up for air when needed. Suffice to say that doesn’t happen often.
When I feel the need to get out of the house
however, I’m usually walking the dog or finding some kind of footrail with a
friend to be a little more active and to simply recharge my mental batteries.
Who is your favourite
fictional crush?
Damn, that’s a tough one! I honestly don’t
think I have one at the moment, but if I’d have to pick someone, I’d say that it
would be Rex, a character in one of my upcoming novels in the Nightshade series.
He’s rough around the edges, honest, tough, yet a sweetheart when it
matters—okay, so he’s also sex on a stick too. He has a dark past that could
have completely wrecked him (and in some ways it has) but he’s worked so hard
to get over those demons. I admire him for his restraint, his dedication to his
team and duty, and most of all, his sense of values. He’s a scary man with a
questionable work ethic and past—especially since he’s a bounty hunter—but he’s
the ultimate bad boy you hope to see stay good and get his turn at happiness.
And in the spirit of the
great Joss Whedon debate, who would win: astronauts or cavemen?
And I just took a trip down the Angel memory lane on this one. (Yes, I’m
dating myself, aren’t I?) LOL So who would win? Both have merits really. I mean
cavemen are who we were before we evolved both mentally and technologically.
Let’s face it…cavemen became astronauts, so wouldn’t both win? Isn’t it in fact
a tie in the grand scheme of things?
Regardless, if you were to pit both of them
against one another, I’d say the guy with the superior intellect (astronaut)
would win. They do have the problem resolution skills and aptitude to research
a hell of a lot more than cavemen would. Let’s just hope the problem at hand
isn’t one too simple however. It seems the more knowledge we have, the more
someone of superior intellect will suss out a complicated way to solve a
problem when the resolution is so simple.
Thank you to Carey for being one of my hidden diamonds and for those who want their very own copies of Carey's books, you can find them at the following links:
(ebooks available at Amazon, Nook, Kindle, Apple, Google and Smashwords)
Or you can find her on social media at
Come back on October 25th to discover the next Hidden Diamond!
